Know what you desire! And go for it!
Do you know what you desire?
Its time that you know what it is that you want and be bold to ask for it!
𝗞𝗻𝗼𝘄𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗹𝘆 𝗱𝗲𝘀𝗶𝗿𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗯𝗲 𝘀𝗼 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗳𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲𝘀…𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗼𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗼 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄…𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗻𝗲𝘅𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗽 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗯𝗲 𝘀𝗰𝗮𝗿𝘆 𝗮𝘀 𝗳*𝗰𝗸!
When I ask my clients
“What do you desire in life?”
Most women respond with…
“Good question, I have no idea.”
Who actually does know what they desire? And if you do, are you taking action?
What if we don’t even know what we want??
If that’s the case you are most likely experiencing; burnout, stress, overwhelm, confusion, frustration, undervalued, unsupported and on and on the list goes.
In my coaching practice, I help women start to know what it is that they want.
To understand that it’s OKAY to have desires.
To feel supported to take action that feels aligned to your wants and desires.
Actionable steps to achieve those desires
The results?? Confidence, courage, joy, love, happiness, success, bravery, delighted.
Let me give you an example of something that’s happened for myself recently.
My desire: to have my husband plan a date night for the two of us.
The old me would have never said anything to him about planning a date night.
Without him knowing about this desire of mine, I would just sit around waiting for him to read my mind. Which would lead to disappointment, sadness, frustration—because he wouldn’t know I had this desire.
Could I have planned a date night myself? Sure. But not the same thing. (There is something so desirable when the guy takes action to plan a special evening out, am I right?)
The new me said, “just let him know what you desire and he can figure out the rest.”
I detached myself from the outcome and let it unfold.
The result? A beautiful date night out. He chose a restaurant (without telling me) that he knew I would LOVE. And I did. It was to a T something I truly enjoyed.
I wasn’t afraid to speak up and share this desire of mine with him. I surrendered the control of needing to know where we were going, what we were doing and just let it unfold.
So here is my question and something I want you to reflect on:
•What do you desire and deeply want?
•Are you asking for this desire to unfold (which is an action step) or just waiting for it to magically appear? Which can result in a shit ton of disappointment.
•Are you being clear or wishy washy?
•Are you trying to control how your desire unfolds? (Again this may cause disappointment)
If these questions are causing angst and you don’t know where to begin, then jump right into my 6-week program, Rise Into You.
Knowing you desire more is HUGE…taking action and signing up for my program…now we are talking
With this program you will know your desires, have actionable steps you can take to achieve those desires and do it all with confidence!